How do you know that it’s a talent?

Someone can writing a book or a novel. Do you think that it’s his talent?

Someone can sing a song well, I mean, singing well, to sing without any mistake. Do you think that it’s a talent too?

Actually, there are three sights for assuming that someone has a particular talent or not:

 

• easy to do it. For Timmy, he only needs fifteen minutes for completing his math assignment, while other ordinary students need two hours for the some problem, so we can conclude that Timmy is talented in Math. Sarah can sing a song of Whitney Houston in half an hour, while Debra needs months of doing it (if she can).
• enjoy doing it. Computer programming is very difficult for Bruno, so he will be very bored in computer programming class. It’s different with Sally, she can wait to be present in computer programming class, and she is really excellence in that class too.

how to find hidden talents

It’s really a general title, “character.” Actually, what I am going to say here is not that general but it’s really specified thing, “children character.”

In supporting successful children, we have to know their talent. The question is, how to find out children talent? As parents, we have to explore to find by these ways:

1. observation and reconition. We have to know our children well and recognizing what they like to do, and often to do. So, what we need is time. Time for doing observating with your children. How could you find something about your children if you have no time for them?
2. Acknowledgment and acceptence. Sometime we do not realize that we have refused our children. When Timmy is drawing something abstractive and we can’t see anything on his picture, we just silence and do not encourage him with supporting words such as: “wow, you are great Timmy. The picture is wonderful.” That simple words are really show your acceptance for him.
3. Training and motivation. Of course this is the level that you as parents have to lead your children for sharpening their talent, their tools for success. After finding treasure spot, then dig it deeper and deeper

Those are the three ways of finding your children talents for success. Have a good exploring time….

Refresh

I consider that today is my refreshing day.  After quite long time i have not been writing here, I got energy for writing today, though….

- I haven’t prepare anything on my mind

- I only have nothing in my sight too

but now, I am trying to write every word that comes up in my mind at this time.

Well, I got something…the word is  a little son, two years old

He got diarrhea today, he hasn’t been suffering from this disease for a long time, but why today? I think the answer is because:

-his mother is not health enough to clean the house (to mop the floor twice a day just like in hospital

-his mother is not concentrating on him, because of her plan or even her problem

So, I suggest for every mother in the world to take care of your children as good as you can.  Your children is your future  

Now, am asking you what is the relation between the title “Refresh” with this writing?