Ten Reasons Why Woman Can Stay in Polygamy?

Polygyny, according to Webster Dictionary is “the state or practice of having two or more wives at the same time.” We wonder why certain women can stay in that situation. There are at least ten reasons which support this situation:

1. The woman is so deeply in love with her husband.  Especially if the hubby is her first love too. Since she was a child she had fallen for him and so comfortable with him. Hence, she could not love other guy but her husband only.
2. Clinging Vine.  As long as their marriage, the wife is not conditioned of making her own money, while hubby is able to fulfill anything she wants, her children want, and even her parents and relatives want. Therefore, it’s hard for her to live away from her husband.
3. Stupidity.  On this condition, hubby is so powerful in order to influence or even wash his wife’s brain with any he wants. Eventually, because of her stupidity, she agrees with all of her hubby’s word. Probably, this is because of her lack of information and socialization.
4. Children.  This is the most common reason for women to keep staying on polygyny. The main objective is to protect her children though it is so painful for her. Most of the time, this situation is not also comfortable for the children. They could feel any confusing even hatred to the father.
5. Religious.  In some religious, polygyny is not prohibited yet suggested in order to help the widows with their children or to reach the higher level in their belief.
6. There is no other choice.  The woman had neither kith nor kin. Though she has family and friends, but they have not intention of helping her to get out from that situation. Even they support and half force her for not going anywhere and keep staying with her husband.
7. Afraid of being lonely.  Actually, this is the combination of love, children, had neither kith nor kin, or maybe she is too ugly and not have any self-confidence at all.
8. Immature.  Similar with stupidity but covered childish feature lack of father’s love and hope and want to accept it from her husband. And yes, she got it from her husband, feel comfortable with him no matter her husband has divided his love with other one/s.
9. Certain Condition.  Especially for man who still believe in mystical world for his physical or even financial power. One of the condition (the guru’s command) is he has to marry more women.
10. Barren wife.  For this situation, moreover if the husband has only little love for his wife, and in the other side, the wife has no other choice; then all she can do is just accept and surrender to all of her husband opinion and decision.

My question now is on what category are you(?)? Or is there any category I miss? Please add more.

How to Overcome Infant’s Influenza

 Sometime ago I read Suara Merdeka papers then here what I found.  I think this is really work for a just gave birth for the first time moms, and still have no experience of caring infant.  Even most of of them often get panic while the baby if suffering from something.  So, I hope this would be very useful.

 If you are a mom of a around four or less months lovely little infant, you must be very tired but also so excited for him. But, I am sure that you could be so distressed when he god influenza, hard to take breath, and too snotty. For this time, is not wise for the baby to take medicine. So, you can handle his influenza by these:

 

 

• First, and the most important is you have to breast feed your baby at least for six months. Breast feeding is increasing infant’s immunity. With sufficient immunity, your baby could throw virus. Therefore, when he is exposed by influenza virus, you as his mom must help him attack the virus by breast feeding. It’s better for you to increase the frequency and quality as well as the quantity of your milk through consuming nutritious food and drink.
• Give your baby more liquid flow. And the best liquid flow for him is still your milk. The purpose of this is to elude him for dehydration and to keep away his condition for getting worse.
• Try to remove his mucus. If the mucus comes out from nose then it is snot, but if it is from throat then it is phlegm. Mucus is not a disease, but it’s an antibody mechanism for putting the virus outside. Your baby’s nose needs to be cleaned by this drop of NaCl physiology 0.9% for moistening his bronchial tube. Drop for three times a day. Watery mucus is easier to be removed.
• Make the baby’s room warmer. Stay away from dry air, since then turn off the air condition in his room or turn on your air heater. Dry and cold air are the trigger for the hard mucus, and make him hard to breath
• Create comfortable and safety condition. Your infant will cry all the time because of this situation. As a mother you have a certain way for making him more comfortable. It’s a good advice for you to keep the baby in your arm and chest, as do skin to skin contact for naturalizing the baby’s temperature. Please let the baby to feel the sunrise around 7 am to 8 am.

 

If you as a mother have done all of the tips above but your baby’s suffering is still then you have to take him to doctor for having appropriate medicine.

CAUSES AND KINDS OF WRINKLE

Wrinkle triggers:

• Genetic
• Hormonal
• Ultra violet
• Lack of rest
• Physical and psychological stress
• Cigarette smoke
• Vehicle pollution
• Unbalanced diet
• Insufficient skin care

 

Kinds of wrinkle:

• Worry lines are wrinkles on forehead
• Crows feet lines are wrinkles on eyes corner
• Frown lines are upright wrinkles between two eyebrow
• Marionette lines are the lines on mouth corner
• Smile lines/deep smile lines are the lines from the left and right nose to mouth corner

 

How to overcome wrinkle:

• Cover your skin from sunshine around 8 am to 4 pm
• Apply sunblock regularly
• Apply anti aging skin care